Melissa Harris 3/30/16 Melissa Harris 3/30/16

Top Things to Get Rid of This Spring

I can’t tell you how good it feels to wake up to bright beating sunlight. Sunshine makes you feel like possibilities are endless. It provides this energy that seems to be unattainable on your own. As you get ready to embark this new season and stage in your life, (because let’s admit, every season brings about a new you) there are a few things to get rid of..

Why is Spring Perfect for Change?

Why is Spring the perfect time to take inventory of what’s in your life & get rid of what no longer serves you? Spring is a transitional season. You’re moving from the winter slumps and hibernation into a phase of growth. It’s the epitome of renewal. It is the perfect time to sow new seeds for the changes you want. This is the time to feel refreshed and excited about what is come.

That’s why many people have yard sales, change addresses, and let go of cuffing season. They’re ready for change. In order for a plant to flourish it must rid itself from the dead pieces that are holding it back. If you’re ready to flourish here’s a few things to get you started:

THE TOP THINGS YOU SHOULD BE GETTING RID OF THIS SPRING

Mentally

Pessimism: When an astronaut is confronted with an obstacle they don’t spend a second further on the obstacle, only the solution. There’s always a solution to be found, but you must train your mind to find it. Pessimism stifles growth and renewal. Optimism allows you to see the silver lining in all things- good, bad, big, and small.

Thinking about your past: your past has already happened. There’s nothing you can do about what is already said and done. Living in the past distracts you from your present. Rid those thoughts of what did happen and focus on what is happening.

Closet

Sweaters you didn’t wear this winter (actually anything you didn’t wear this winter because you won’t wear it next winter either. Promise.)

Out-of-style boots: All of your boots are not timeless.

Bathing suits you haven’t worn in years: find a bathing suit you’re excited about wearing will make it that much easier to say yes to unplanned pool parties and vacays to the beach.

Office

Useless paper: Tax season is a great time review, reflect and rid yourself of unnecessary paper in your home. **Need help organizing your papers? Head over to Feel Free TV for 2 minute tips to get organized. I’ll be posting one on paper clutter real soon ;-)**

Pens that don’t work: Nothing’s worse than going for a pen when you need it just to find it’s out of ink.

In Life

Unhealthy relationships: This should really be the #1 things you get rid of. The people in your life should uplift you, enhance you, make you feel grateful for their existence. That may mean a small circle or an unexpected group of people. Enhance the quality of the people you surround yourself with, enhance the life you live.

Old Hair styles: Try something new, something fresh. It’s one of the easiest ways to feel like a new person.

Car

Unflattering or broken sunglasses: you’ll never get your favorite sunglasses fixed. Once they're broken just move on. Everyone has a glasses shape that’s ideal for their face. Discover yours.

Trash: Ketchup packets, straws, receipts, water bottles, get rid of it all. A trashy car says nothing about the car, only the owner.

Bathroom

Old nail polish: I can’t tell you how many times I tried to revive polish with a drop of nail remover. It works temporarily but in time you're back to unusable polish.

Old hair remover cream and razors: This is just dangerous.

Make-up brushes: don’t jeopardize your skin holding onto year old brushes.

Toothbrush: Bristles weaken with every brush. Make sure your teeth-brushing efforts are effective. Change your toothbrush every season.

Top Tip for getting rid of things in a hurry:

Are you now motivated to bring your best self forward this spring but don’t know how you’ll get it all done? My favorite trick is through music. Use a song like a timer. Throughout the duration of a song, go in each room with a garbage bag and get rid of as much as you can. It’s a great way to get started. More than likely you’ll keep going.

It’s time to blossom and there’s no doing that holding onto the past. No matter what’s tried to bury you this winter, acknowledge you’ve weathered the storm. Allow yourself to stand tall and strong, because it’s now time to shine.

Hello Spring!!

We’ve missed you.

Feel Free,

Mel

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Melissa Harris 2/10/16 Melissa Harris 2/10/16

5 Ways to Bring More Love into Your Home and Life

Valentine’s Day. The day that singles look for a way to feel less single, and where couples look for a way to feel more in love. Regardless, the day is about highlighting love. It’s often related to the romantic kind of love, but truthfully there’s no difference in the love you have for your friends, family, your kids, or yourself. No one should feel anything less than an abundance of love on this very special day. If you surround yourself with those who love you and focus on what you love, you'll realize there's no lack in love when you pay attention.

One Valentine’s Day my sister and I took our mom out for dinner. Clearly we were all single at the time, but it that didn’t cross our minds that night. We tried Indian food for the first time, got each other roses, and spent all night laughing. I felt more love this Valentine’s Day than I had on previous occasions where I was in a relationship, but the love had faded. The fact is, no one has a lack of love in their life if they look in the right places. You can choose to shine light on what’s beautiful and feels good or you can stand in the shadows waiting for someone to shine the light on you.

In my business, it’s important for me to help my clients feel good about themselves and their surroundings. Yes we declutter and create a space that’s functional and aesthetically pleasing, but we also focus on the inner mental clutter that’s causing the disorganization. This is to build new habits and create a surrounding that’s refreshing.

In light of Valentine’s Day, here are

5 Ways to Bring More Love into Your Home and Life:

1. ADD BRIGHTER, MORE COMPLIMENTARY LIGHT:

Lighting is everything! You want light that welcomes your presence at the flick of a switch. Great lighting easily gives a room life. Try buying a new lamp or even better, a new lamp shade. Go for something that reveals more light, either a wider lampshade or a taller lamp. On a budget? No worries, experiment with moving your existing light in different areas of the room. You could easily be shining light in all the wrong places.

2. PUT PICTURES INTO FRAMES:

You have hundreds, probably thousands of unforgettable moments in your phone. Relive those feelings by putting those pictures in a visible place. The hallway, living room or bedroom or great examples.

First year as a mom has been filled with moments that I would love to relive..

3. PAINT A CONTAINER YOUR FAVORITE COLOR AND MAKE IT A CENTERPIECE:

Your favorite colors will always bring you good vibes. Centerpieces have an amazing way of giving a room personality. And what better personality than your own. Grab a sample paint and a couple of brushes from Home Depot and let your 5 year old self come out to play.

I've had this pot forever, and it's always looked out of place. Instead of getting rid of it, I painted it a soft lavender and placed it in front of the living room. This project was fun and a tad bit messy, but what's a good time without a little mess ;-)

4. ORGANIZE BOOKS BY COLOR:

Love books? Give yourself a reason to talk about the stories that have changed your life. Guests will be intrigued by your color coordinated bookshelf, then BAM you hit them with the most incredible book you’re reading. #winning

5. GET STATIONARY SET YOU LOVE:

There’s nothing more pleasurable than cute, fun reminders. Take a trip to your local Target and grab a stationary set for you to write down affirmations, quotes, or to-do lists. The possibilities are endless.

Everything in this picture was under $3 from Target and Ross. Super cute and easy on the pockets.

There you have it. Easy, fun, affordable ways to add love into your home and your life. Incorporate more of what you love in every way you can so every day is another Valentine’s Day.